Lessons learn 2013

1) You cannot please everyone even if you try.
2) God will always find the way to get to you.
3) People make mistakes but you can not use the excuse "you are not perfect" to keep doing the wrong thing.
4) Depends on the situation LOVE is just not enough.
5) Show how much people mean to you Dont wait till you are about to lose them.
6) Fake friends will disappear when the darkest moments come and there you know who you can truly count on.
7) Be patient things cannot be rush even though you want it to happen ASAP.
8) when something good ends, its for something better to start.
9) when one door closes, a thousand windows open
10) if someone makes you feel that you aint good enough, that means they are not good enough for YOU!
11) people who are worthy are the ones by your side particularly at your worst.
12) Express your feeling because as you are hoping for reassurance the other person might be doing the same.
13) Life ends on a blink of an eye so enjoy it and live it the best way possible and always pursuing your happiness.
14) Say and do what you truly feel because life is one there are no remakes.
15) If you need closure of any kind, do it for yourself no matter what people think.
16) When people know you are strong, they miss the moments when you feel fragile and need support.
17) I am like a mother figure for some people even if they do not realize it. Its overwhelming sometimes but I am glad to know if they need something they will come to me and I will definitely be there.
18) I like to know where're I stand with everything and everyone but also I am learning to enjoy every moment because there is no second chance to relive anything.
19) I am lucky that even though my past relationships ended, I can be friends with my exs and I know they appreciate what we had and me as a person. I have good friends I can truly count on. 
20) I may "break down" from time to time. This doesn't mean I'm weak, it means I"M HUMAN !
21) I need to draw limits with people even with the ones I love because not all of them put themselves on my shoes. People are not as understanding as me because they are not me! so better keep things clear and simple.
22) Drama free and if something happens. Talk about it without giving stupid people the victory.
23) I am a warrior and survivor in more way than anyone will ever know and gets.
24) when I love I love, no matter what you say/do, my feelings towards that person would not change.
25) A baby will always melt my heart. Maybe it is my desire of being a mom speaking out-loud or maybe it is just that I see my reflection in their eyes and realize how we share the same characteristic in different ways, "fragility".
26) A lot of ignorant people and psychos will try to ruin your relationship, but I always don't let them do it :) this is why the people I love and I will always be together. Our link is unbreakable.
27) WANNA BE WITH SOMEONE Tell them ! don't wait for the perfect moment cuz it won't happen. You make it perfect by saying whats on your heart :)

One More Time...

In this proud land, we grow up strong since the beginning we lack everything. We were taught how to fight, how to win. Never thought I could fail. I never abandoned a fight or at least I believe so. I am strong woman who abandoned all her dreams. I have changed my face, my name but no one loves you when you lose.  Don’t give up because you have friends. Don’t give up because there is a place where we belong. Let your head rests, don’t worry too much. Everything will be all right. When tough times come, you will count on me. Don’t give up, please!

There are many absurdities in the world, but the there is one in particular. Do you know which one is it? That you and I loving each other as we love, we are separated. Some people talk about keep on going or not. Talk about not giving up. Yet, that is not easy for me. I don’t have that strength. In reality I don’t expect much or too little…just don’t expect. How everything changes right? Because before I wanted something for life and now I’ll settle for one more time.

Give me just a moment to tell you what I feel. I’ve lost so much time without your love.  Give me a moment to try to understand the studs of your love.  One more time to cry what we lost, to understand why we did it. One more time for the kisses we didn’t give. One more time, come back with me.  

Ghosty Ex(es)

So this post in based on my personal experiences and experiences from different close friends of mine. Thanks to Nataly J., Alejandra R. (my besties), JC and in some level to AJ for sharing your experiences and helping out to make this happen lol..

Who hasn't been in-love? We all know that the beginning of any relationship is amazing BUT not all relationships work out unfortunately. Yet, they will leave you good lessons and funny stories to tell about the "classes-types" of ex(s) there are ... Here we go with some..1,2,3.GO!

Ex-Karma
This is the ex that will leave a print in your soul like no other whether it is a good one or not so much.  He/she will come back into your life unexpected particularly if she/he found out you're dating someone new. In some level it will be like a little ghost inside your head when you start something new.

The player - Cheater:
This person does not have a clue what it means to be FAITHFUL. He/she is with you but will make out or have sex with any other person (new-ex-"friend"-buddy). He/she says "I love you and it won't happen again" but it definitely will happen infinity times. When you guys finally break up after admitting how bad of girlfriend/boyfriend she/he is, that person will even cry to persuade you to take them back.

Too good to be true
Perfect relationship but it had to end not because of  either of you but different circumstances that made you take different paths. You will always be friends and care for each other no matter who you are with or how long its been. Its memory will make you believe in true love

Mr Limbo
He/she  is the one you like the most YET this person will not make a decision about make it exclusive. When the end is about to come, he/she will say the right things without drawing any line. Very egocentric even though he/she will deny it till the end. Even though he/she had almost everything you were looking for, like a good single lady/gentleman that respect themselves you say "bye bye" YET he/she will come back now and then to make sure if you are over it or not.

El boomerang
No matter what that person will never get over you even if they are dating someone new, engaged or even married. The relationship was so good that it left a mark in his/her life. That person always tells you how much they still care and loge you. You will always count on them. He/she will come back into your life from time to time but with goo vibes.

Almost the one
 That person has everything you look for even though its not perfect YET you are the problem yes you! admit it! XD lol jk. That person does everything sh/he can to make it work but youuuuuuuu savage it. The relationship was going pretty good till some ghost from the past ( ex karma) makes you second guess some situation and be suspicious. In case the relationship ended, you really want a second chance because you know that person is someone you definitely don't want to lose and you will improve yourself for yourself and that amazing feeling.

The Psycho
That ex that will haunt you no matter what you do. That person will always try to contact you no matter how many times you ask to stop it. He/she will even haunt you new parent just because he/she want you both to break up as badly as possible creating whatever it is necessary for it to happen ASAP. This ex go crazy if he/she realizes "you are in a relationship". It is obsession not love!!!!

The Possessive one-The Owner
Whether or not you guys are together , you will always be his no matter if you agree to this statement or NOT! He/She will always be flirty and it is impossible to have a legit friendly combo with this person. no matter how hard you tried to just be friends.Therefore, when you have someone you love ( old or new), you decide best is to make that person EXIT your life permanently.

Start Again [ R.E.D]

And I remember everything, Everything I loved, I gave it away like it wasn't enough All the words I said and all you forgive How could I hurt you again?

What if I let you in? What if I make it right it? What if I give it up? What if I want to try? What if you take a chance? What if I learn to love? What if, what if we start again?

All this time I can make it right With one more try Can we start again? In my eyes, You can see it now, Can we start again?

Emptiness inside me, wonder if you see it's my mistake and it's hurting me I known where we've been How did we get so far? What if, what if we start again?

I'm lost inside the pain I feel without you, I can't stop holding on, I need you with me!!! I'm trapped inside the pain Can we never love again? I'm lost without you!!!

One more try, Can we start again? In my eyes, can you forgive me now? Can we start again (one more try?)

Let Me Cry

You should cry all the pain, cry all the sadness, cry the tragedies, and cry everything.  Cry all the pain; take it out because it takes the place of your happiness, of love. When you cry, you not only cry the pain but also the hate, the resentment, the frustration…you empty everything.  When you cry, you water and maybe something may flourish. Each tear brings a lesson. Every tear is a part of you that dies. Every tear is a part of you that want to be reborn.

After you cry it all, all the sadness, the loneliness; you will understand that things are just the way they are and not because of that it means its bad.

Things are the way they are…beautiful, hard, unexplained, complicated. There is everything in life…obstacles, happiness, troubles…cry a lot but then laugh because that what hope does. Cry everything you hope for but smile knowing what may come.