Do you think true love and move on can go hand on hand? Until recently I did not think that was possible. However, my point of view continue improving by the day. Maybe it is due to different situations I have lived the past 4 years or just a matter of growing up. Now I try to see all the scenarios possible before making judgements and even after try to keep an open mind.
I am true believer that if you truly love (ed) someone; you will never hate them. You may be disappointed, disgusted, broken due to their actions but never hate. If there is love, it is impossible hate to exist. In my personal experiences, I truly loved in the past and even though that person(s) could have broke me in to pieces; I was never able to hate them.
After the relationship is over, one of you will be the one who "move one" faster. It does not matter who it is because what you or the other person will feel is almost the same. There will be jealousy and pain which is normal even though it will not feel right. That doesn't mean neither you still love or stop loving the other. Everyone just gotta keep moving.
Maybe the other person/you started a relationship because they don't know to be alone. The years will go by just because they comfortable even if not happy or in love. That will cause jealousy maybe you still not over or maybe it's just confusion. At the end of the day, you will know that if you truly TRULY love that person; you want them to be happy no matter how the relationship ended or where you guys stand.
YOU will continue living and getting to know new people till you meet or reconnect with "the one" Maybe the one, your soulmate, is the one that just broke your heart or maybe is someone completely new. All I am sure is that you and everyone gotta continue moving and living what you gotta live so when the time comes everything with fit and fall into place.
Whether you are held on the past, stuck in a relationship because you're comfortable or just single doesn't mean you will not get a happy ending. This just mean your happy ending may take a little longer than "expected"
If you love someone, support them even if it is not what you want as long as it does not break you as a human being. Show and tell them so you have no more regrets. Moving on is not the same as stop loving someone. Most important show your love by loving yourself and being the best version of you so later on you can live that story with every piece of you. Give them the space they need to live what they need to and make up their minds. When they sure, they will come back to you and both will make a move whether it is to say "good bye for ever", build a strong friendship or rebuilt a stronger future together... Everyone deserve a second chance whether it is to reconnect or to make peace with the end...
I am true believer that if you truly love (ed) someone; you will never hate them. You may be disappointed, disgusted, broken due to their actions but never hate. If there is love, it is impossible hate to exist. In my personal experiences, I truly loved in the past and even though that person(s) could have broke me in to pieces; I was never able to hate them.
After the relationship is over, one of you will be the one who "move one" faster. It does not matter who it is because what you or the other person will feel is almost the same. There will be jealousy and pain which is normal even though it will not feel right. That doesn't mean neither you still love or stop loving the other. Everyone just gotta keep moving.
Maybe the other person/you started a relationship because they don't know to be alone. The years will go by just because they comfortable even if not happy or in love. That will cause jealousy maybe you still not over or maybe it's just confusion. At the end of the day, you will know that if you truly TRULY love that person; you want them to be happy no matter how the relationship ended or where you guys stand.
YOU will continue living and getting to know new people till you meet or reconnect with "the one" Maybe the one, your soulmate, is the one that just broke your heart or maybe is someone completely new. All I am sure is that you and everyone gotta continue moving and living what you gotta live so when the time comes everything with fit and fall into place.
Whether you are held on the past, stuck in a relationship because you're comfortable or just single doesn't mean you will not get a happy ending. This just mean your happy ending may take a little longer than "expected"
If you love someone, support them even if it is not what you want as long as it does not break you as a human being. Show and tell them so you have no more regrets. Moving on is not the same as stop loving someone. Most important show your love by loving yourself and being the best version of you so later on you can live that story with every piece of you. Give them the space they need to live what they need to and make up their minds. When they sure, they will come back to you and both will make a move whether it is to say "good bye for ever", build a strong friendship or rebuilt a stronger future together... Everyone deserve a second chance whether it is to reconnect or to make peace with the end...
