In all languages

People act with total lightness, total barbarity thinking that after apologizing everything will be OK and back to normal.
YES, I might be silly but to me 'we' is 'we', 'I call you' is 'I call you', 'I love you' is 'I love you'. If I say that I will be there, you know I'm gonna be there. Now when someone tells me they will be there I doubt it, because people have lost the value of the word. You can fail so many time and come asking for forgiveness, and that's it, that easy.
Asking forgiveness should not be taken so lightly. The punishment precedes crime Dostoevsky said, because before committing the crime, you know that it will generate pain and take the blame. That guilt is punishment.then you intend to redeem that guilt by just saying "I'm sorry"?.
"Sorry" can not fix what we did wrong. To ask for forgiveness before you have to be willing to repair. Is there any point in apologizing if there is no way to repair what you did wrong?
When that person doesn't forgive us, we are forced to live with our mistake, our guilt. When that person doesn't forgive us, it is a way to force us to see what we did and admit we did wrong. A simple forgiveness can not erase the pain that was caused.
Asking forgiveness is to put a band aid on an open wound that provoke ourselves. Insufficient and untimely. Only when we take responsibility for what we do, then you can start to build something different. 
Pleading and crying , kneeling, praying in all languages​​, apologizing is not enough, no repairs, no relief if we are not responsible for our actions. 
A simple sorry could not erase the pain.
Some things are unforgivable even though you apologize in all languages​​.