Second Chance

There are times when we want to say many things but cant put them into words. Each time we can't say what we feel, we end up speechless. Maybe it is best. Sometimes a gesture can be clearer than a word. Gestures are more stubborn than words. You can close your mouth, but mute your body is almost impossible. with a few exceptions. At the time when you reach the point of no return, the only left thing to do to is to speak up... scream how you feel.Sometimes gestures are so clear that leave us speechless ...almost with open mouths because what you least expected is happening...


When you can not say what you feel, you are stuck ...almost frozen, paralyzed, you can not advance. Often people talk about moving on right? Not to give up ... Yet it is not easy for everyone  Sometimes we do not have much strength. Actually, we do not expect neither too much nor too little, we no longer expect. How everything changed, right? Because before we wanted something for the rest of our lives... Now we are satisfied just with one more time, with another chance... the last one...
They say life is made up of second chances. Leave the past behind and even more important, both parties should learn to accept and take it into account. Whatever the reason that separated you the first time, this issue must be overcome. it should never be used as a weapon to hurt the other in an argument. Make peace with the past before you leaving it behind is the key otherwise it could be like a ghost and haunt you. If you take away that power addressing the concerns that both may have, no one can hide behind the breaker new link. What's left is only lessons learned, boundaries you both set and the love and strength to work and improve a relationship day by day.
A second opportunity is not to pick up things where they were left of a few months, days or years ago and continue as if nothing happened. In this new opportunity, both should take the time to recognize, falling in and accepted, remember that there is already a precedent and that makes a difference with any other relationship that could had begun with another person.When given a second chance is necessary for both parties to work on changes that they are going through. The person receiving the second chance  should this time shown himself/herself as he/she really is without pride, claims or arrogant attitudes waiting the other side will accept everything that comes now. The important thing is to show that if there is something that should be worked on, then they will put the effort into it, to improve as a person and improve the relationship.
It is important to recognize that who you are giving the second chance to is someone who fulfills two basic requirements, love and maturity to accept. If you got a second chance, recognize these characteristics in your partner and tell him/her. It is important that the other side knows that you value the fact to be back together.