Is it Mean To Be?

I will start saying that yes I am a hopeless romantic but also a very realistic person. Somehow I use both qualities to see and analyze things when it comes to love and particularly my love life. I believe that when you truly love someone that love never dies even if both of you never speak to each other again. Also, I believe that when two people are still in love with each other, they will find the way to know about the other person directly or indirectly. You will want to be part of their lives and will be there for them if they need you. True love is selfless because you want the best for that person, yet at the same time it is "selfish" because the ultimate goal is to be with the one you love. I believe that when two people break up, it is not always because they stop loving each other. Sometimes you may love someone so much but you are aware both of you need grow and see if you truly wanna be with that person. You might date some other people in between but at the end of the day you will end up with the one you truly love. It doesn't matter if you broke up 2 hours, days, weeks or years ago. If you still love someone, you will fight for it. You will try to reconnect to see if the love between you two is the same or even better than before. Then you will make a decision as soon as you are sure about how you feel about that person and start again... give it another shot ... a chance.
When you go back wit someone after a long time, it is because you really know how you feel about them and what you want with them.
The second time around is better because you know what went wrong , what you did wrong and what you will not let happen again.!!! The second time around is the moment the relationship will be stronger because you know you will give it all you have to make it work. It will be a more mature love than the first time. You will be more careful when you approach something that is not working out, doubts or anything like that because you know you want your relationship to last. What is meant to happen will happen even if people or situations wanna get in the middle. You will not stop true love no matter what you do hunny. True love has a habit of coming back and happen.