26 dic 2016

Falling falling

Falling in love the most beautiful and horrible thing we all go through at some point in our lives. A lot of us take our time when we do so because we know playing with people/our hearts is the last thing we want. Heartaches are the worst! Therefore, be honest and avoid jumping from relationship to relationship just because you don't know how to be alone.
Personally, I don't fall for someone easily but when I do it , I fall fast and hard!  The "funny thing" is that I will not explore the feeling or confess it unless I see the other person feeling the same way - in some level-
I do not have a type of man. However, what I look in him is to be hardworking, HONEST, funny and romantic. I love when the man conquers your heart and confess his feelings for you - old fashion - I don't ask for much, do I? lol I believe that is kind of the general requirements for a good partner...the rest is putting the work and effort to make things function and find ways to fix whatever that needs to be adjusted. I believe in this instead of just breaking up because you have different points of view or have a few problems.
I still believe that true love conquers it all.. I know I know I may sound naive but thats the way I am. I never said it would be easy ! Hey nothing that it's worth it comes easy. For example, If I found someone worth it, I would do anything in my power to make it work. I would 'fight" any obstacle whether it is distance, people, situations. Yes I said distance. I would have a long distance relationship  only with the right person, making things clear and having a high level of communication. I know it would be terrifying since I had a bad experience in the past but if that person is THAT AMAZING, I would consider it otherwise I will pass without hesitation.
Now, I am not about looking for someone for a "while". I want a partner, companionship ...someone who I can build an empire-home with. For some I may be too young to think this way but it is who I am whether you like it or not. I don't date just because I don't wanna be alone. I date when I am actually interested in someone and see a future with them.
On the other hand, I am also aware of what I bring to the table. Love is not only about "receiving" but about "giving". I am the type of parter who is supportive, loyal and a little over protective - motherly-. I will be the first one to cheer up any dream but also let you know when you are making the wrong decision even though you will be the one with the last word. I want to be not only your partner but your friend.
Believe I will give my all to my love but if I feel he is not on the same path I would be the first one to let him go and be happy on his own. I may make sacrifices when I am inlove but I would never beg someone  to be part of my life.

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