Is it too Late to Say I'm Sorry?

This post may be for someone , for some or for myself...

Have you ever heard the words " it is never too late to say you're sorry" and/or "it is too late to say sorry" ? I think we all have hear both at last a couple of times in our lives. 

"Sorry" may be a simple word but has a very deep meaning at least it should. For some, it is way to easy to say it making it part o their routine.  "Sorry" in those mouth has very little o no meaning. On the other hand, for some saying it takes all the strength they may have. 

In my opinion, it is never too late to say sorry only if you actually mean it. Take the time you need to acknowledge what, why , when and then make the move. What is the point if you haven't done that? well you will go down the same path, make the wrong turn and screw everything up again. Stop letting time pass by and making excuses for yourself and your actions, women/man up and say "yes I screw it up. I"M SORRY" . It may be hard but it will not only free you but may free the other person as well ... you will feel it..

What if it is too late? Well as preciously mentioned, for me it is never too late. Maybe it is late for the outcome you may be expecting or waiting for. If you made a bed, you will have to sleep on it. Maybe the person that you hope to get back already moved on or the friendship is broken for sure. However, one thing is certain, after doing this, you will never be the same. Why? Because now you are aware you have the courage to admit you are human and do something about it instead of hiding behind excuses like "I'm not perfect." Also, the other person will see you in a different way. They may even have respect for you because you are honest not only to them but to yourself. 

Now, time to talk about the most important and hardest "sorry"... the one to yourself. Yes! We are our worst critic and enemy. We tend to be so hard on ourselves without noticing. Stop! Embrace yourself and learn how to improve not only to make new and better connections with people but with yourself. You will have you forever till your last breath so this link is the most important of all. Apologize to yourself for not giving  you enough credit or for not being hard enough to the point you let your mistakes take the best of you, your life and the ones you love... It is time to make a change and that will make the difference between being truly happy and just be ok but pretending to be happy. Do not settle!

It is time for me to say I'm sorry...

1. I am sorry for not showing you how much I love/loved you and what you mean/meant for me
2. I am sorry for making you feel I doubted your love for me
3. I am sorry for not letting you know how much you hurt me 
4. I am sorry for not letting you in or not doing it completely
5. I am sorry for not speaking up my thoughts and feelings
6. I am sorry for not putting limits
7. I am sorry I did not give it a shot or second chance
8. I am sorry I don't try hard enough and I stay in my comfort zone
9. I am sorry for not admitting I can be sensitive and vulnerable.
10. I am sorry for...

If you want to apologize to someone do it! stop thinking about what the other person may think and JUST DO IT. That person may be waiting or needing it... Do it for you! Because you deserve to let that baggage go and be in peace...