Lateral Thinking [new me]

   Some people think people never change, some think otherwise what I believe is that people don't change but they do improve themselves if they are truly open to that option if not, things will always be the same no matter what they say....
   Life is always changing and giving you unexpected surprises or maybe you might see them coming but did not want to accept [whether they are good or not so much]. Sometimes the word "change" makes us fear of what is coming and that should not be the case. Even though some changes are needed but not wanted [or the opposite], they happen for a reason. Changes make you stronger, wiser and help to see things from a different prospective. 
   Along your life you will see that people come into your life to give you lessons whether is through tears or smiles. The ones who are meant to be in your life for ever will always be no matter who or what want to ruin that link [ whether is a friendship or anything else- more-]. When it comes to love you will see that if you are meant to be with someone, things will happen when they are supposed to happen. Maybe you will say a lil good bye and later on reconnect with a stronger connection  and that time NOTHING and NOONE will break both of you apart  Or maybe someone else will make you realize why it didn't work with the previous(s) person(s). 
   Honestly and loyalty are very important aspects of any relationship. If someone want to be honest with you, they would be since day one and it is the same if that person want to lie and be fake. No matter what you say, ask etc you just have to trust unless they give you reasons not to and hope for the best. Time will show you that person's true colors. Truth always comes out. Also, many people blame media about the drama in their lives. Media only spread it but the one creating it is every single one of us through our actions. Then, take responsibility for it. If you don't want drama ignore stupid stuff said by ignorant people or don't make the mistakes you are doing [ check your conscious about what you been doing]. You cannot always blame someone or something for everything that happens on your life. Just be happy but NOT at expense of someone's else's
   Now last and most important, never change yourself just because someone wants you to UNLESS that person  makes you see what you doing is hurting not only them but most important hurting you. Improve yourself as much as you can because at the end of the day that will not only make you happy but everyone who truly loves and cares about you. Have goals in the short and long run so you are able to see the steps you need to follow to accomplish you main goal(s). Learn to forgive the ones who hurt you because it is good for you and it will help you to keep on going. Forgiveness is definitely not easy yet it is not impossible. Do good because everything you do always! comes back around and when you least expect it, you will see it happening. Finally, never forget that you are not alone, God is always with you whether you want to believe it or not. He is the only one that will help you along the way like no one else can...