Giving and Receiving

When it comes to love, most people always ask you "What are you looking for" instead of asking "What are you willing to give to that special one." Why are we so use to ask things from people instead of focusing what are we willing to give? We all spent the major part of our time thinking what we want from our family, relatives, friends or  that special one ( boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse). We have expectation of what we want and don't want or even what we will put up with. We rarely focus on what we are willing to give or bring to the table. If you expect something from someone, first be able to give that to that someone .. fair enough isn't it?
At this point in my life, I know what I want, what I don't want and what I can put up with (handle). I know relationships ( no matter what kind) are never easy because is about people with different personalities- character coming together cause they think the link they have is worth it. There will be times when neither of those people will be lovable at all but the point is going thru that together whether it is as family, friends, or romantic relationship. It is easy way more EASY to take the easy way out and break everything apart than actually stick together.
Lets share my point of view...

What I want:

Someone who knows what he wants in life and will work for it [want to get far in life]

Secure of himself and not afraid to show his emotions even if he is jealous..It is always good to know someone is afraid of losing you.

Someone who I can talk about anything.I wanna be able to share amazing and awesome new but also insecurities, problems, doubts  or anything like without feeling I will be judge or he will flip out.

Has details now and then like giving you a single rose, love letter or any other surprise out of nowhere without you have to be bugging him

FAITHFULNESS, LOYALTY, honesty, respectful.

SUPPORT .Someone who truly care about you and will be there for you when you need them the most.

Someone who will not hide stuff from you even though it might upset you whether is something little or big. about exes or just life in general. 

If there is any problem in my life, his life or in the relationship, he will want to solve it as a team and face anything together instead of taking the easy way out: break up or blaming someone ( pointing fingers) 

Someone who won't be afraid to accept his feelings for me to anyone! He will be proud to be with me. 

What I give:

• I will be faithful as I expect that.I'm not gonna put up with anyone cheating on me.
• I will support that person during the bright and not so bright day. Motivate him when he needs it but also let him know when he is not doing things right. 
• If I am in love, I don't only say it but also show it every time I can and in every way I possibly can. Since I like romance the old fashion way I may write letters lol yeah corny I know but also because it is the best way for me to express what I think and feel.. Don't judge lol
  
• I will get jealous now and then .. hey I am a woman plus I am latina lol but I rarely show it unless I see something shady form my partner or someone else... If you actually love the person, you will be afraid to lose him so it is ok to be jealous a lil... and everyone like that ( to see their love one protective of them).
• If there is a problem, I like to face it and talk about it not like other who run from it and change topics. How can you find the solution to something if you try to blind yourself? exactly my point! I like to communicate and see how it can be fixed as a team.
• I may not express every deep emotion I feel or I take a long time but if the person makes me feel secure enough I will break all the walls I have put up and let them in my heart.
• I will always be there for that person no matter where I am or what time it is. I will find the way to be as close as I can.
• I don't play game. What you see is what you get. I am as honest as I can possibly be. I take things serious cuz the last thing I will do is to play with someones heart. 
• I may be quiet at times or not have the best word but definitely that person will always have my shoulder and/ chest to put his head for comfort. 
• I will be committed and do everything I can to make things work and last. 
• I am polite and don't like drama... now if drama try to find me I like talk about it which is not the same than arguing for anything. I don't like to argue unless there is a big reason for that to happen. I think it is better to spend that time doing something that will make us happy.
• I give him the personal space he needs as I do. I like him to share his plans for the weekends, holidays or any day whether it is with me or not. As I do, If i will go out i will let him know...communication once again.