Little Liars

Nowadays people blame media so much for ruining relationship whether they are friendly or romantic ones. However, to what extend is this actually truth? After talking to my best friend, I realize that yes media has something to do with it; but at the end of the day the ones ruining relationships are the people involved in it.  Through media you create different expectations about friendships and romantic relationships which can be damaging to the ones creating their links based on this. Be smart enough to use the media to communicate with the ones you love but don't base your whole relationship on that.
On the other side, media puts everything out there. Cheaters and liars are caught when they least expect it. I will say this is a benefit. For example, recently I realized I have been lied to in so many levels by someone who swear will never do something like the stuff that has been done -for a very long time. Social media helped find out the truth by chance. Funny isn't? I am glad life finds its ways to show people's true colors. I mean this person showed me its real face last year either way. I was disappointed in so many levels that now I may even start feeling sorry for that one. It is sad to see people not appreciate someone who has been there during the ups and down[whether it is a friendship or romantic story or anything else].

The truth always comes out one way or another, sooner or later and sometimes even through the most simple ways you realize everything that happens. You got to the point where you are neither angry nor sad because you can not expect anything more from them than just more disappointments.
Right now all I see are lessons, I don't know if that person(s) will ever read this or not, or will try to ever contact me...sincerely one way or another it won't affect me or my life.
I feel blessed because I always -most of the time- find the truth about everyone... who is fake  and who is real, who lied to me - when , how and all-; but most important I reaffirm who I can trust and count on.  I am in a good place...working on my goals and giving myself a chance to be happy in all aspects of my life.. Will things happen as I want them to? I don't know; but all I know is that I keep learning a little more each day. I get stronger and see things from different points of view. If something is not good for me, I just put distance because I don't need pain or hurt.