Real or Not?

Giving so much of yourself to people is extremely risky...not all will appreciate it. Some wont even have a little consideration towards you no matter what you've been through or not, how long you know each other or whatever the case is. Thats why I take my time with people and don't get attached so fast like other people may do. I know how selfish people can be.
Now the point is to know what "real" is because everyone has a different point of view and way to feel. For me something real is when you show how you feel or anything not only verbally but also facts/actions back everything up. People easily say "you are my friend" or "I love you" nowadays. How true or if that person actually means is shown throughout time. It is easy to act up for  some months -particularly if everything is fine- but when the path gets rocky and all thats when you should be aware of everything .. it is when true feelings and colors are exposed.You can see through the mask, in case they are "wearing one"
Now when stories end - friendships or romances- you can decide how to take everything in. You can be mad and a coward blaming everything in just that person or brave enough to admit that you made mistakes too - both did-. Never regret something because something I learned and keep confirming every time is that every person comes into your life for a reason, he/she will teach you a lesson whether is through tears or smiles just have to be open to learn.
Worst case scenario, you realize your friendship/romance was not real at all from the person you were in love with, be happy you were real so were your feeling and you gave your best.. it will be sad for that person to realized they had the most amazing friends/ boyfriend-girlfriend but took it for granted. You don't want someone who is fake, let it go! You , me and everyone deserve better than that.The ones that leave without been throw away will come back without invitation...Life will make them realize it sooner or later and they will be sorry so leave everything to karma. It may hurts to let go what was real for you - whether or not it was for the other person as well- but believe me things get better  [ I've been there] just be patient and heal your heart.
On the other hand,If it was real things will happen when they are supposed to happen, if not you learn a lessons and you know there is someone better that fits perfectly with you. Live every story and be real because no one deserve to pay the bill of someone from your past and you deserve a new chance.. a chance to be happy and appreciated and maybe get to know and be with someone awesome ... Life is tricky, you never know how things will play out for you to fulfill your destiny. Take chances even though they can be risky at times because to some point life is that way. If you have the gut feeling it may be some new incredible story and something real, go for it with open eyes though If you know- find out what you feel is real and the person you are with shows you the same, be happy and don't let that slip of your hand no matter how tough some incredible story and something real, go for it with open eyes though ;) Remember that the past should be left there in the past where it belongs but keep the lessons learned in your mind and heart.