Routine vs Reality

How many of us have use routine to escape from realities? If you say you haven't, I am pretty sure you are lying to yourself.  Routine helps us play it safe whether it is about your career or personal life. Routines are easy to follow and that is why is so easy to fall into them without even realize it.

Jumping off that routine, taking the risk to follow a new love/ new old love, new job, new dream is hard but sometimes worth it when doing it for the right reasons. So many people stay in a unhealthy relationships for different reasons plus it is always easier than start from scratch. Unhealthy relationship can vary from relationship to relationship. It is not only related to violence. If you don't know how to identify one I leave you a couple of examples if bad "routines"

• If you are with someone you dint love but act like you do just because you don't want to be alone.
• You keep cheating on your partner
• You keep bringing your partner down or vice-versa
• You know you are in love with someone else but do not want to admit it to yourself or your partner
• If you jump from one relationship to another in matter of hours or days, that a very toxic cycle.
• Toxic friendships. You keep those friend who stab you in the back way to many times that you lost count. They would talk extremely poor about you to strangers and even your love ones.
• That crappy job. They will take advantage of you but you are there because you need it or you are afraid. 

No one says that open up your eyes will be easy. It never is! But it is important for you to see that you deserve to be happy in the right way ( not stepping on people or playing games). If you don't try to pursuit you happiness, NO ONE will do it for you. So get out of that "stupid comfort zone"... confess your love, confess your dream and follow it with your heart and head in the right place.  Break up with that nasty and toxic relationship that you have and ask your love to be only yours. Get the new job that you want! ( get it before quitting lol we all pay bills ). Get that new hair cut you so want but everyone is against lol

If you are truly happy, everyone will notice!  Stop denying to yourself the chance to feel true love, true passion, true happiness because you want to do what is "correct-right". You will do the right thing by being honest, truly honest to YOU and the ones around- next to you