Demishing

When someone you love passes away, you feel a heartache like no other. Words cannot explain the pain that you are feeling. People say time will heal the wounds but that is a lie. The wounds will always remain, you just learn how to live with them and see them as lessons learn.
Losing someone is not only about death but also about losing someone emotionally no matter what relationship you have. The phrase " you don't know how much someone means to you till you lose them" is more real than you think. Being close enough to lose the one you love ( parents, relatives, friends, boyfriends/girlfriends) opens your eyes and make you realize not only how much you love them but also what you are actually doing to show it to them. A lot of people get stressed out because of different situations and stop showing their feelings along the way without even realizing it. Please sometimes that person don't realize it cuz its his/her personality  or depends on what kind of situation they are going thru then let them know so the problem can be fixed. Life is too short. If you love someone show it! Don't stop yourself because of what that person might think, do or say because life can surprise you. Maybe the other person is feeling the same way or maybe not but if you don't give it a try, you will never know what could have been. Do everything in your power to make things right and be happy. Besides, in case you are losing that person not only emotionally but physically try to spend as much time as you can with the love one because time will not wait for you and in the blink of an eye that person is gone.
Unfortunately I had to lose or be in the risk to lose the people I love to realize that in my try to protect myself I was hurting them. It might be late or not but still I took the decision to make everything in my power to show them I am different. Time is necessary even though I hate that phrase. Yet at least in my heart I know how much they mean to me and all I will try to do to show them and make them proud whether they are by my side or not.
I really really wish with all my heart a miracle happens and I have a second chance to show them [ and everyone I love] how much I love, care and miss them in my life. If I do, I definitely will make sure and give everything in my power to not make the same mistakes again [ isn't that the lesson learn?].. Hope God hears me and help me out in this one... either way my heart keeps growing strong and these people will always always mean the world to me because of everything we've lived together and I am  glad they've been part of my life.....
P.D no need to say who it is .. they know it already! plus I don't care who read it or not or what people think about this I do it because is one way to express how I feel even tho I don't give personal details.