Cheating ....puack, eek, ew

So I finally had the "courage" - stomach to talk about this topic. I've been thinking about writing about it for the longest but for some reason didnt...I guess it was the moment till now...no particular reason by the way. Cheating. the word and concept which is very disgusting , annoying and more to mostly everyone ( the people talking about it or even the ones going thru an episode of such).
Should we start by stating what CHEATING is? I guess so since so many dumb men and women try to excuse themselves trying to find their own meaning and concept of "cheating" According to the Oxford dictionary : Act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage. Therefore FOR ME and I think most women I've know cheating is any type of unfaithful behavior meaning flirting, kissing, touching, having sex and more when you are in a "committed relationship" plain and simple. Besides there exist emotional cheating which will be you open up 200% more and share everything I mean EVERYTHING important in your life with a certain person who is not your partner ( just that one).
 I hate cheating with every single cell in body. I feel really disgusted about the topic so you will realize I get very aggravated while discussing it. I can't believe there are some guys that will  say "I love my girlfriend" yet will be cheating with any girl they can whether is someone random, "friend" or an ex then why is the hell are you in a relationship? ( same goes to unfaithful girls). Lately I have seen examples in reality shows, TV shows, and real life. Most of the time is the same situations. The cheater will deny it till the last minute or the partners has undeniable proof of it.Then he/she will cry or make promises they will end up breaking as soon as they have the chance. I feel sick to my stomach just by thinking about it!!!!! Sorry ! For me it is a DEAL BREAKER in so many ways like I will never forgive something like that because it is so disrespectful and heartbreaking specially if that person acts like is nothing -.- like seriously? how can you sleep at night? Of course, if  their partners will decide to do the same to them ( cheating on them) they will flip out within a second saying a bunch of hurtful stuff because "how could they do that to them" -.- see! They can do it but if it is done to them oh God ! ITS OUT OF THE QUESTION!no one can do that to them ! Then WHY WOULD YOU DO IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!. THINK BEFORE YOU ACT! EVERYTHING HAS A CONSEQUENCE
Some rational people say people cheat for different reasons. They may be seeking for power, feeling attracted, trying  to fulfill something missing in their lives whether is professionally or emotionally. For example, if your girlfriend or boyfriend is unsatisfied in their career paths and cheat, it may be because it make them feel somehow special. I think that is ignorance and just trying to excuse any type of wrong behavior. 
As any other wrong decision, cheating has many consequences in person who cheats and the one who's been cheated on.  The one cheated on will be insecure since then because her/his partner decided to break any type of trust there was. The cheater will be paranoid if their partner will take some type of revenge doing the same to them and more. When the cheating come clean there is only two option break up or give it a shot - moving on from that disgusting episode. If both people really like REALLY love each other they an try to work things out yet it will very DIFFICULT for both. The relationship will never be the same unless both people have a very deep conversations stating what they truly want and truly commit to each other and make things work. 
All I have to say is that I am against it in every single level. I want and love being in a committed, faithful relationship. I will not forgive a partner cheating on me in any type of future relationship I have or any type of circumstances ( NO EXCUSES). I think I deserve the respect and loyalty I give!. So that is why I will always show my cards when the relationship starts so if the person is a cheater he better say it in the begging instead of later on when we are both invested. Thanks God my exs were as loyal as they could be ... we should see about the next one ( new or ex ) xD lol Please people be faithful! no excuses ! if you chose to be in a relationship then respect it !!!!!