It's not Official Till It's Facebook Official

I have been reading and seeing people complain about how "social media" destructs relationships over and over again LIES! I don't believe that AT ALL! I think people are the ones who destroy them whether it is from the inside or outside meaning the couple grow apart, the couple ends up being influenced by people - situations, or people do everything in their power to destruct them. There will be exes [form one side or maybe even both] or just jealous people - "friends" [ fake ones] that will make comments, send inbox and stuff that will create drama.. It happened to me ( both cases previously mentioned). So if you know who you are, who you are with, the type of relationship you have; and you are "happy" with the decisions you have taken then ... don't care what people say against what you post online as long as it doesn't disrespect anyone -_- duh! Stay together so this people trying to break you guys apart don't win!!!!!!!! Not gonna make the same mistake again  like ever

In my case, I have posted my relationship status, general status and stuff like that and never had a problem before the last couple of years when I let some people influence me in changing how I see the social media. Yes they tried to make me see it as evil and destroy any relationship you have BUT I don't agree with them "anymore". The relationships status that I preciously shared did not destruct my past relationships at all ( no counting the last one) because we knew where we stand and if they ended it was for unrelated reasons to it.

I like to post some stuff that happens in my life like relationship status, pics, phrases, songs and some post. NO I am not obsessed with social media or over share everything. I share maybe 15 or 20% of things that happen in my life. I like to feel free to share what is making me happy ( relationship status or good news) because most of the people I have on my Facebook [for example] are my relatives, people I went to school with [high school, college, university] and friends I have met at least once X) so yeah I mostly have my stuff on private like 90% of the stuff only my friends can see it and what it is published on public are mostly phrases or songs  so whats the problem? Plus I wanna feel free to do so since most of my family and closest friends are not close to me ( geographically)

I will always share the good things ( relationships status, photos, phrases, quotes, maybe good news in my life) because I don't see the problem with it. I let once people influence me and things went wrong but hell that won't happen ever again because now I am aware who is who ;) So if you are like me and will post your next relationship status because I don't hide who I am dating ( when I do) and other stuff  COOL! :D. Just be aware people will talk whether it is on you social network ( Facebook, emails acc. , twitter, others) or in person. so don't blame on it. Just be and feel free to share you are dating that person you are madly in love with, the good news about the new job you got, or just how amazing you feel in that new shirt you got as a way to spoil yourself. .. . JUST KEEP IN MIND not to base your life on it like yeah it is ok to share it but you must not publish every detail of what you eat every single meal, how many times you breath, and stuff like that thats not what I "support" lol Plus be aware who you add and talk only there are some crazy people out there so watch out.. use the media in a smart way guys... so well thats my input in the topic xoxo

P.D I agree with the pic by the way to a certain point lol.. you don't have to put it on Facebook but it feel nice to share it with your love ones :)